13 Things That Happen When You Date A Blogger

13 Tips For Dating A Blogger

  1. Most of us have a routine first thing in the morning. Check blog stats, check Pinterest, check Twitter, check our Facebook pages… okay, now we’re ready to start the day.
  2. We’re GOING to take a million pictures. Sometimes, yes, of delicious food. Whining about it isn’t going to make us take any less. You’re just gunna annoy us.
  3. A planner isn’t just a planner. It’s a way of life. Please don’t disturb us when its pages are open and we’re writing stuff down.
  4. Notebooks WILL be found all over the house. Often, stacks of them. Yes, we need that many.
  5. We easily become obsessed with weird random stuff like flamingos, pineapples, pineapples with sunglasses, watermelons, etc. Get used to our crazy.
  6. We take this stuff seriously. For some of us, it’s a business, so don’t dismiss our blogging as a simple little hobby. We sign contracts, pay taxes, and have clients, we’re not just aimlessly surfing the internet.
  7. Want  to impress us? Learn about PhotoShop or develop some professional photography skills. Bloggers like guys with skills. We’ll definitely keep you around if you can help us with our work.
  8. We talk to ourselves. Sometimes, a lot. Especially when writing a blog post. Nothing wrong with that.
  9. We’ll be having a great time, a great conversation, and mid-sentence we’ll run into the other room searching for a pen and paper like a crazy lunatic. When an idea comes up for a blog post, we can’t risk forgetting it!
  10. If we’re taking a long road trip, chances are we’re listening to a blog podcast instead of music, so you better be okay with that.
  11. A high traffic blog day puts us in an instant good mood! Celebrations are always in order on those days!
  12. Yes, we have tons of online friends we’ve never met. And you know what? They’re a whole lot nicer than most people we interact with face to face, so no, it’s not weird.
  13. Don’t know what to give us for our birthdays/V-day/anniversaries? Lucky for your, gift giving is no longer difficult. Just scroll through our blogs and you’ll likely find a whole bunch of wish list posts. You’re welcome.

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  1. Kareema

    February 10, 2016 at 7:41 am

    Oh yea, #2,11 and 12 are me all day! Everything on your list rings true and perfectly normal,lol.

  2. Lexi Bollis

    February 10, 2016 at 8:13 am

    #4 is so real for me haha. Great post!

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  4. Mayra Murillo

    February 10, 2016 at 8:46 am

    This is so funny and 100% true! Often times when I do a gift guide I leave a message for my husband literally say “Husband get me this”. It’s comical how many times he often misses that and thinks I mean it towards the masses. Men!

  5. Sarah

    February 10, 2016 at 8:46 am

    HAHAHA! Isn’t that the truth! I love this! Good points…I think it describes a lot of us!

  6. Nina @ Hugs and Lattes

    February 10, 2016 at 9:17 am

    One of my favorite things about my boyfriend is that he supports my blogging ventures. I actually have a post scheduled for next week about dating bloggers!

  7. Ashley

    February 10, 2016 at 9:31 am

    These are all so true!!! My hubby has gotten so used to it all and now he is always telling strangers about my blog!

  8. Amanda Shuman

    February 10, 2016 at 9:54 am

    My husband cooks for us and I follow him around the kitchen with a camera photographing his creations. HA! He also gets asked random questions as part of my research. 🙂
    – Amanda Shuman | http://www.carrylovedesigns.com/blog

  9. Brittany

    February 10, 2016 at 9:58 am

    I hate it, but I do start my day by checking my blog as well! Thankfully for my husband I haven’t started taking too many food pics yet.

  10. Kylee

    February 10, 2016 at 10:16 am

    #8!! Yes – my husband always makes fun of me for this.

  11. Tianna

    February 10, 2016 at 11:20 am

    haha this was so true! I definitely become obsessed with random prints and patterns since becoming a blogger! so much yes to online friends and my family now knows to check my blog for gift ideas 😛

    1. Kayla Cruz

      February 10, 2016 at 6:27 pm

      Right?? I’ve met so many cool people online and I’m always like, why are you so much nicer than most of the humans I have to see every day?? Thanks for stopping by!

  12. Liz Jo

    February 10, 2016 at 11:38 am

    Yes! I talk to myself so much that I have to say my husband’s name for him to know that I’m talking to him and not someone else or just myself. I do number 9 a good bit. But usually just type it out on my phone like a mad woman.

    liz @ j for joiner

    1. Kayla Cruz

      February 10, 2016 at 6:26 pm

      That works too!! Lol our poor husbands. I’m sure my hubby feels neglected sometimes, but I always make it up to him! Thanks for stopping by! xoxox, Kayla

  13. Kat

    February 10, 2016 at 12:04 pm

    So cute! Totally true 😉

    1. Kayla Cruz

      February 10, 2016 at 6:25 pm

      Thanks! 🙂

  14. Crystal // Dreams, etc.

    February 10, 2016 at 12:13 pm

    I loved this! Especially the planner one… it’s so true! If my planner is open, leave me alone. 🙂

    1. Kayla Cruz

      February 10, 2016 at 6:25 pm

      Hahaha don’t want to lose your train of thought, right? Planners are the best! Thanks for stopping by! xoxox, Kayla

  15. Rachel

    February 10, 2016 at 3:35 pm

    LOVE THIS! I’m not in a relationship, but these things still happen to me throughout the day and my friends have learned to deal with it!

    XO, Rachel

    1. Kayla Cruz

      February 10, 2016 at 6:24 pm

      YayyY! Glad you liked it! Thanks so much for stopping by! Yea, eventually your friends are just like, “Yea, she’s blogging right now…leave her alone.”

  16. Flight & Scarlet

    February 10, 2016 at 3:41 pm

    Ahaha I love this post! So many things, ALL of them true. My significant other is a computer geek so he helps me a lot with coding when I run into an issue, and I make him read every single post for copy editing/suggestions. Sometimes I think he gets annoyed with how much time I spend on the computer doing blog stuff! Haha! Thanks for the hilarious post!

    1. Kayla Cruz

      February 10, 2016 at 6:08 pm

      Computer geeks make the best blogger boyfriends!!! LUCKY!! LOL thanks so much for stopping by and reading!

  17. Kimberly

    February 10, 2016 at 5:54 pm

    Haha, this is a fun post! I haven’t seen anyone write one like this yet. Very creative and I love it! Can sooo relate 🙂

    1. Kayla Cruz

      February 10, 2016 at 6:06 pm

      Hahaha thanks!! Glad you liked it!

  18. Ashley

    February 10, 2016 at 6:51 pm

    That is too funny! I love it!

  19. Jenny

    February 10, 2016 at 8:37 pm

    This was all too true and funny!

    xoxo, Jenny

  20. Mariah

    February 10, 2016 at 11:53 pm

    I totally shared this on FB because I had a high count today and was super happy! This is perfect!

  21. Lauren

    February 11, 2016 at 1:08 pm

    This list made me smile. I’m sure my husband totally thinks I’m weird most of the time…but he’s gotten used to it (and pretty good behind the camera!).


  22. Amanda

    February 12, 2016 at 4:33 pm

    All of these can apply to when you are married to a blogger. This made me chuckle.

  23. Megan

    February 14, 2016 at 5:31 pm

    This was so funny! What if you are the blogger and just cant help the routine?

  24. Jen @ Frugal Millennial

    February 14, 2016 at 8:13 pm

    Haha, I can relate to all of these!

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    February 22, 2016 at 8:04 am

    #2 drives my husband crazzzzzy! Lol

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    April 1, 2016 at 1:13 am

    What are some blogging podcast you enjoy? Loved this post!

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